The dog has grown impatient with my grief. Familiar now with my waves of sorrow, she quietly retreats. This is interesting to me, since I am also (nearly) silent, I wonder what makes her realize that I’m hurting. Her insistance on hiding or softly slipping into another room is also curious. We form a tangled partnership of discordance — between what is tangible and what is elusive, what is acceptable or not, what is expected, what is extracted, added, remembered, forgotten, lost and acquired.
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Sylvia, I hope that you are okay, hugs from me. 🙏🏻
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Yes I am, it’s a process I think. Thank you John.
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You are welcome my friend. ❤️
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Sending you extra love.
Dogs (and cats) have a sixth sense about things. It’s like they know when to give extra and when to give space.
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That’s very true Dale.
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Dogs always know. They’re picking up on cues that we humans have dropped, I think. I hope you’re okay, Sylvia. 💛
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Yes, thank you Lynette. I’m experiencing a different kind of grief than I have when losing other loved ones in the past. It’s interesting how we change as we age and how we (hopefully) grow.
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Sorry to hear of your loss, Sylvia. 💔 Dogs read us very well. Maybe she thinks she is responsible for your grief? Sending you hugs and healing thoughts. 💕
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I never thought of that Eliza. You may be absolutely right. Thank you.
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Many animals can read us and are affected. Hoping you blossom happily.
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Yes, you’re right Tom. Thank you for stopping by.
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Awwe! Animals tell us how we feel and how they feel so well. Hugs to you.
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dogs have a way, of being, more in tune with our feelings than we are, they can detect when we need them to be there for us, when we need alone time, and they give it to us, stay out of our ways, and when the air’s changed, they would, wag their tail at us, and, love us, unconditionally.
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Isolating can look like grief but it’s not. One moment at a time keep suiting up and showing up. We can do this.
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So beautifully sad and maybe you need this but not forever, not for yourself but for the one that has gone. Do what is needed now but also remember to lose love is hard but to lose the self is not what love asks.
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